First of all omit the children’s names from the invitation. This is supposed to let guests know that children are not invited. Does this always work? No, some people either don’t understand or just ignore it.
There is a trend today for couples to put “adults only” on their invitation or reception card. Feelings are pretty divided on if this is proper etiquette. Technically it isn’t (Emily Post would have a fit). But it is showing up more and more on invitations these days. Martha Stewart even suggests including a card that reads “Children are welcome to the ceremony. During the reception, they are expected in our kids’ hospitality suites”.
If that seems a little too hard line for you, you can always spread the word to your family and close friends that you prefer no children. Let them spread the word to the rest of your guests. Have a baby sitting service lined up, for those out of town guests that have no one to leave children with.
Even with all these precautions, I can almost guarantee that someone will show up with a child, so just be prepared. Smile and continue to enjoy your wedding, don’t let it ruin your day.
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